I spent years trying to find my footing — moving, working, searching — doing everything I could think of to fill the gap. But nothing felt right.

Nothing felt like me anymore.

Until one night on a beach in San Diego…

I was walking alone on a dark stretch of Mission Beach when I looked up and saw a vision of a knight on a white horse charging toward me.

I felt this overwhelming rush of relief — finally. Someone is coming to save me.

And then he vanished.

And I heard my inner voice say: "Nobody's coming to save you. But you don't need them to. You already have the map. Use it."

I dropped to my knees and sobbed.

Because somewhere in the grief and the chaos and the survival mode, I had been waiting. Waiting for someone to rescue me. Waiting for permission to start over. Waiting for the "right time" that never seemed to come.

That night, I stopped waiting.

I went home, pulled out my Canfield training manuals, and started building myself a roadmap for my life. Not for anyone else. For me.

What do I want? Who am I now? What is this season of my life actually for?

Slowly, painfully… beautifully — I started rediscovering me.

What I didn't know yet was that this roadmap would eventually become the foundation for everything I now teach inside Your Midlife Reset Membership.

But first, I had to live it.

I went back to the Success Principles I'd been trained in. I got reconnected with my values. I figured out my purpose for this season. And I gave myself permission to actually want something again — maybe for the first time in a very long time.

But when it came to how to share it, like most things in my life 😁 I went down the wrong road first.

I did what everyone told me to do — built courses, priced them at a premium, lined up a launch date. And then, two weeks before going live, I scrapped all of it.

Because it didn't feel right.

Not the pricing. Not the model. Not the idea of women working through content alone in their living rooms at 11pm… and quietly drifting away before they ever got to the good part.

Because here's what the self-help industry doesn't want to admit:

Most people who buy a self-help book never get past the first fifty pages. And studies show that only 3-15% of people who purchase online courses ever finish them. And as many as 20% never even start.

That's not a motivation problem. It's a support problem.

My late husband Charles once said to me, "All those books you've been reading? They ain't working."

And honestly? He was partially right. 🙈 😄 Not because the books weren’t helpful — but because I was trying to change alone. I didn't know how to take what I was learning off the page and transfer it into my actual life. I didn't have anyone to help me bridge that gap.

I heard an analogy recently that really sums this up: You can read a book about swimming. But until you actually get in the pool, you're not going to learn how to swim.

That's the self-help industry in a nutshell.

And there's something else nobody talks about — something I think is really important:

When you start doing real personal growth work, your brain panics. Literally. Its primary job is to keep you safe, and it interprets change as a threat. So when you start to make changes, your brain throws up every warning sign it can find — fear, doubt, overwhelm, resistance — all in a desperate attempt to get you to stop.

If you're doing this work alone, you don't recognize those feelings for what they truly are. You just feel the fear. And most of us give in to it… because we don’t have a support system to help us understand what’s happening and support us as we work through the temporary panic.

That's not weakness. That's biology.

But when you have a coach who can help you understand what's happening, and a community of women going through the same thing right alongside you?

The research shows completion rates jump to 70-90%.

Seventy to ninety percent.

That's the difference between doing it alone and doing it together.

So I built something different.

Not another course to work through alone. Not another program that costs thousands of dollars and serves only the women who can afford it.

A complete support system — with courses, coaching, a community, and the ongoing guidance you need to actually create lasting change.

Because the transformation you're looking for doesn't happen in isolation.

It happens in a community. With support. With women who get it.

And that's exactly what Your Midlife Reset Membership is. 💜

Once I got clear on how I wanted to help women… I had to get clear on what I was actually helping them with.

Here's something I've come to understand that changed everything for me.

Purpose isn't a fixed destination. It's not something you figure out once and carry with you forever.

It changes as you move through the seasons of your life.

In my twenties, my purpose was being Dusty's mom. In my thirties and forties, it was being a wife and caregiver to my family. And for far too long in my fifties, I was too lost and isolated to connect with any sense of purpose at all.

But now?

I wake up every single morning genuinely excited about what I get to do. I'm out of the soul-sucking 8-to-5 that was draining the life out of me. I have the freedom to spend time with my son and daughter-in-law and to travel and visit friends and family. I'm doing work that lights me up and actually means something.

And I get to help other women find their way back to themselves.

That is my purpose for this season.

And one of the most important things I'll help you do inside Your Midlife Reset is figure out what yours is. 💜

I see women online every day making comments like "I feel completely invisible" and "no one cares what an old woman has to say."

And I want to reach through the screen and wrap them in a hug and tell them: You are not done. You matter so much. You have so much left to give — but you have to give some of it to yourself first.

Your purpose isn't over. It's just changing.

I'm not a big-name coach.

I don't have a massive platform or a famous methodology or a bestselling program.

I'm a woman who figured most of this out the hard way. Who lost herself completely and found her way back. Who knows what it feels like to stand on a beach in the dark and realize that nobody is coming to save you — and that you don't need them to.

I've been trained by some of the best minds in personal development. I'm a Certified Canfield Trainer and a Certified Passion Test Facilitator. But more than any certification, I've lived this.

And I want to share everything I've learned with as many women as possible.

Not just the women who can afford a premium price tag.

Every woman who wants help.

The founding member price of $17/month won't be available for long.

After the founding period closes, the price moves to $27/month (and may go up as the community grows).

Joining now is the only way to guarantee you'll always pay the lowest price.

And if cost is ever a concern, I’ve created an affiliate program to help offset the cost – inviting four friends makes your membership completely free.

Because I meant it when I said every woman who wants this deserves access to it.

You don't have to know exactly what you want yet.

You don't have to have it all figured out.

You just have to be willing to show up for yourself.

And if you've read this far?

You already are. 💜